This may or may not have been stated, implied, or recognized in previous posts, but I have geographic commitment phobia. Relationships, habits, hobbies, promises – I’m reliable and will commit 100 percent. But, tell me to choose one place to call home (aside from my childhood home) and I will run in the other direction. Maybe it due to my age, stage in life, or the fact that I’ve read too many books about pioneers on the Oregon Trail.
Whatever the reason, this conflicts with my notion of loving the place where I am, and feeling that sense of place and pride in one’s community. I’m not really being true to my word if I keep dreaming of other places, am I? I have issues with the warm southern weather and the lack of snow and the distance from home. But, I love small towns (mostly), the railroad tracks sitting one block away, the constantly sunny days, my house, my running routes, and the people I have met. And these factors are all important in making me content to live where I do. There are certain small town moments that I love, classic Americana, if you will.
Last year, Vinny and I brought laundry to the laundromat in order to catch up on the neglected baskets full of dirty clothes and towels. We loaded the laundry into the machines and then sat outside on the hood of my car, eating a pizza, while the freight train passed by, not even 100 yards away. Moments like that will always remind me of this small town in America.
The other day after work we took a walk around town in the 70 degree, windy weather (in February). We saw a few people along the way and meandered past the shops and boutiques that had since closed for the day. And since I’m still participating in Project 365, I always have my camera and am delighted to find good opportunities, such as this building in town. Sotheby’s Realty had previously been a robin’s egg sort of blue, so the change to natural wood is not something you can miss.
Upon closer inspection, we could tell that they were in the middle this task, which became obvious once we turned the corner. I believe it was even a darker shade of blue than in this picture, but you get the idea. While blue may not be historically accurate, Southern Pines has yellow, dark green, and pink buildings along the streets, so the blue fit in nicely.
So, whether it takes you a walk around town on a beautiful day, a good cup of coffee, gazing at houses, finding a good restaurant, or anything else, I hope you find some way to enjoy the place you live. It always takes me a while and it may not be constant, but I think if we are all happy to be where we are for now, life is much easier. And the preservation field will thank us for finding value everywhere we live. Think of the National Trust’s initiative, This Place Matters. And send along stories of why you like where you live.